ALL relationships are a challenge but at the same time, these provide opportunities for personal growth. A relationship shows us in our true colours and serves as a perfect learning ground. Whether it is with our father, mother, husband, wife or child, it is the relationship which helps us to learn about ourselves and others. There is no such thing as a wasted relationship because even that has something to teach? you emerge wiser out of a relationship than when you enter into it, and accumulation of wisdom is what life is all about.
The book concentrates on the male-and-female relationship, taking an in-depth look on how it works in this amazing world of energy that we live in. He explains that apart from gases and liquids, even solid substances have energy because on powerful magnification of the solid substance, we notice that it is made up of tiny particles vibrating at phenomenal speed. These tiny particles are known as neutrons, electrons and protons which link together to form atoms?the most basic building blocks of life??everything is made up of energy, vibrating constantly at a high frequency.?
We too, as human beings, are part of this energy, as everything else around us is. High-vibration thinking is based on this fact. It is a new concept which taps into our knowledge of the movement of energy, helping us find a way of seeing people and the interactions with them as part of ?a unique energy-transmission process? that is hugely empowering.
The first part of the book explains the fundamentals of this concept and explains how it works. Just as solids, liquids and gases vibrate at different frequencies, so does our emotional energy. Positive emotions are high-vibration energies while negative emotions are low-emotion energies. If we find a way to maintain high-vibration energy and deflect low-vibration energy, then we can change our whole perspective on life. An interesting and relevant point that the book makes is that even if we start with a low-vibration energy field and feel uncomfortable with a different group of people, we should remember that they are no ?better? than us. We all have our own qualities, strengths and weaknesses. We may want to be more like someone who has a high-vibration energy field because he is positive and fun to be with and more successful, ?but that doesn'tmake him intrinsically better? than us. Self-criticisms are low-vibration emotion and if we give way to them, they will only make things worse for us.
A person who has had good upbringing in a high-vibration environment will have high-vibration thought patterns, giving him a better chance of making the most of his life and equipping him better to take advantage of the opportunities that arise.
The latter part of the book talks about the steps that help us to fall back in love. Falling out of love is something that most of us experience at some stage in our life and probably more than once. An understanding of high-vibration transmission (HVT) gives us the ability to understand the highly complex emotional experience in our relationship and emerge victorious. Some of the tools are:
Work together, forget the past and start again from scratch, as it is an act of forgiveness of each other and mental preparation to climb back to love.
Start looking at things differently?all the things that had mounted up and exploded under the disagreements that had acted as the triggers.
This book provides a new way of looking at life, gain control over the negativities and lift your relationship to new heights through a newfound empowerment.
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